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My Boy, Mac
Grieving the loss of a pet: One Year On. Macintosh Robson - who clearly knew his place in the family. A year ago today I lost my boy. And I've been thinking about what to say, because grief is funny like that. It sits quietly most of the time and then taps you on the shoulder when you least expect it. A grief when you lose a pet is another thing altogether because it's almost something to be ashamed of. They were after all...just a cat. Let me tell you about that creature who

Leni Robson
Mar 4


Please Confirm You’d Like To Opt Out Of Grief
Why the opt-out email is worse than the one it’s trying to spare you from There’s an email sitting in your inbox. It arrived on a Tuesday, which feels fitting somehow — not even the dignity of a Monday or a Friday, just a Tuesday — and the subject line reads: “We know Mother’s Day can be difficult. Click here to opt out of our upcoming emails.” How thoughtful. How progressive. How utterly, spectacularly useless. Because here’s the thing nobody at the marketing meeting conside

Leni Robson
Feb 25


Is a Celebrant a Registrar?
If you’ve started planning a wedding in the UK (congratulations and all that shizzle) and found yourself quietly wondering why this all feels more complicated than it needs to be, you’re not alone. And one of the most confusing things is 'What's the difference between a celebrant and a registrar......So let’s talk about it properly. A registrar celebrant and an independent (or Humanist) celebrant are not the same thing. They do different jobs, work under different rules, and

Leni Robson
Feb 7


Direct Cremations: The Good, The Bad, and The Downright Dodgy
Once upon a time, funerals were fairly straightforward. Someone died, you wore something black, stood in a crematorium trying not to cry...

Leni Robson
May 8, 2025


Time to take a leap into the 21st century?
Oh it's Leap Day ladies! What fun, you can now propose to your boyfriends, that moment you've been waiting for for four years. So take...

Leni Robson
Feb 29, 2024


What's Love Got to Do with It?
Valentines Day is here adorned with hearts, chocolates, and flowers, (and according to Google chemical reactions - I'm iodine...

Leni Robson
Feb 14, 2024


2023 - A year in the life of a Derbyshire Celebrant
Well now the Christmas decorations are coming down and the last mince pie has been eaten, the dishes from New Years Eve have been washed...

Leni Robson
Jan 2, 2024


Five hundred twenty-five thousand six hundred minutes
According to a song in Rent that’s how you measure a year. A year in the life of a woman and man. That’s on my mind a lot today as it has...

Leni Robson
Sep 8, 2019


Venues and how to make the most of them
Thinking outside the box for a venue for your funeral

Leni Robson
Jul 25, 2019


A Natural Blonde
I’m a natural blonde. I was born that way. Pictures of me growing up show me with straight blonde hair. Over the years, I’ve tried to...

Leni Robson
Jun 28, 2019


A conversation with the best friend on the occasion of his 38th birthday
in which we learn that our beloved heroine may have many names and why she will never again drink Sambuca

Leni Robson
Apr 8, 2019


GUEST BLOG!! Emma from Doodah Designs tells us how to tell your wedding story in pictures.
How to get the perfect pictures of your perfect day

Leni Robson
Mar 18, 2019
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